POSSIBLERS Motivation

Saying ‘ NO’ is better than ‘No Response’ O crap! It’s been long I am approaching him/her, but getting no answer! I tried to call him many a times but he/she is not answering the call! I asked him many a times but he/she is not replying! Aren’t the above mentioned are our daily happenings which trigger us? Each one of us is either waiting for an answer by someone or someone is waiting for our answer. It happens both at professional and personal front. According to me, world is composed of two kind of people- first, “who have something to say and can’t” and secondly those “who have something to say but don’t”. We feel so irritated and wonder that what is taking a lot of time for the person to answer or what is taking a person to opt for no reply at all. For people who ‘can’t say’ they need to learn the art of how to say and for those who ‘don’t say’ at all needs to be responsive in nature.  The reason why people resist saying ‘no’ is that they have little fear...

Learn to LET GO We all want to control, especially our lives because we think we are the owner of it, the sole proprietor, but when things become out of our control, we start feeling helpless or powerless and start thinking about all the negative things that could happen. We start chasing or dwelling on what is out of our control which not only prevent us from experiencing the beauty of the moment but also having a peaceful mind. We even try to do all the possible things to make that happen the way we want it, no matter how bad the repercussion will be. To let go of emotional burden, we need to ask ourselves whether in that particular situation I can’t change or I won’t change. Because there are certain things which are not in our control, as we don’t know what will happen in the next minute. However, our benefit lies in the acceptance of reality and let things go which are not in our control and focus more on the things which we can do or on which we have a control i.e. ...

“Oh Yes! I know how to do this”, “Oh Yes! I have a plan” many of use this statements often, because it’s all about how you plan your life and then going according to that plan. Life tastes different flavors at different phase of life a like being a student in school, in college, as an employee in organization, as a spouse and even as a parent. Hence, different plan at different stages where some goes well and some don’t. However, there are many who just hit the bull’s eye in their plan. It’s amazing and feels like they were all sorted since their birth. They just follow the plan and make it big. And yes there are some people for whom this plan doesn’t work. They lose their way and enter somewhere else just for the sake of going somewhere and then again get lost. Then somehow they get up again, figure out everything, and start from scratch with a different plan. But in the meanwhile they do not realize the biggest obstacle in their journey which is their age. This age becomes s...

Step Out From Your Comfort Zone We all want to achieve the great success in our lives but, are we really stretching ourselves to do something worthy? Most of the time we avoid things and activities which makes us feel uncomfortable, even if we know that the result of it is the best for us. It is very unfortunate that we avoid facing the challenges and wants to run from it into the other direction i.e. our comfort zone where we feel safe and finds no risk. We hide ourselves from the life's struggles, challenges and opportunities and this is the biggest reason which limits our success. To make our life worthy, we need to get comfortable with uncomfortable because if we can be comfortable with uncomfortable then we'll be prepared to handle any situation whatever comes in our way and one of the best way to make our life worthy is to try something new. But for some people new is unfamiliar and unfamiliar is uncomfortable. So, willingly they trap themselves in a monotonous ro...