POSSIBLERS Motivation

CONDITIONS APPLY We all are so used to these words ‘terms and conditions apply’ that nowadays we really just ignore the important part of reading it and just accepting that obviously there will be some terms and conditions. But here I am talking about the conditions we have started putting on relationships. Just like we have accepted the fact that there will be conditions on anything we buy from market, we also have started accepting that any kind of conditions also apply on relationships. And forget uncle, aunts and cousins but even parent child relationship also comes with ‘terms and conditions apply’; be it child’s studies, job, marriage or parents’ health and so on. Though obviously not each and everybody falls in this ‘The Conditions Apply Category’ but yes, most of us do. It seems like we have become so used to ‘It’s a give and take policy’ that now we hardly care about the strings attached with people around us; all we care about the work done, the thing bought. ...

CHOICES We make choices each single day and making a ‘choice’, a RIGHT CHOICE is one of the serious business for every Individual whether it is for own self or helping our loved ones to make a CHOICE. This concern sometime creates one of the biggest turmoil or friction between their relationships whether it is between Husband and Wife, Parent and Child or any other. Everybody wants to help their loved ones to make correct choices so that they won’t repeat the same mistakes as they did in their lives. Basically in trying to help their loved ones, they actually steal their ability to make the choices for themselves. They try to control their actions and wants them to act as they want it which will help them to avoid facing those problems. Then the problem arises of “Imposition” in their relationship and further they wonder why their loved ones start resisting and felt uncomfortable with their control. This scene is very much evident in a parent - child relationship that they want...

Don’t Miss ‘I’ in ‘US’ Never stop doing little things for others because sometimes these little things occupy the biggest part in their hearts, but what if the same is not reciprocated you. What others do is not my business, but what people do to me, may be again not my business but yes it does effects. We often say that “I just do my part and don’t expect anything from others”, I just don’t expect that they should to do the same to me but when certain gesture or action did not come back the way we did, it hurts and we feel bad.  We sometimes also feel like I am being taken as granted. If we can be little honest to ourselves, somewhere yes we have little expectations but we resist accepting the same. When things in life go smooth and in air, we do a lot for others, and keep saying that “Lets enjoy the present, who knows and can predict future??” Slowly and gradually we get “used to” to it and want to feel the same throughout the life. Very silently our life crosses thr...