CHOICES
We make choices each single day and making a ‘choice’, a
RIGHT CHOICE is one of the serious business for every Individual whether it is
for own self or helping our loved ones to make a CHOICE. This concern sometime
creates one of the biggest turmoil or friction between their relationships
whether it is between Husband and Wife, Parent and Child or any other.
Everybody wants to help their loved ones to make correct choices so that they
won’t repeat the same mistakes as they did in their lives. Basically in trying
to help their loved ones, they actually steal their ability to make the choices
for themselves. They try to control their actions and wants them to act as they
want it which will help them to avoid facing those problems. Then the problem
arises of “Imposition” in their relationship and further they wonder why their
loved ones start resisting and felt uncomfortable with their control. This
scene is very much evident in a parent - child relationship that they want to
control the life of their kids, so that they won’t commit the same mistakes
which they did in their past.
Making Choices is the process of actual learning which
comes only by self-experience which adds the value to our life. Listening to
well-wishers is off course important because they are advising through their
experiences which you can analyze and can check what are you doing and how are
you making a choice. Secondly, the only way to deal with any choice - is to
accept it. Now, there is no point in regretting as choice has been made. What
we can do is to learn a lesson from it and channelize our energy in dealing
with the consequences effectively.
Bitterness
of one slice of bread may or may not give the same taste to two different
people.
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